I totally agree with your TamaHaru views. It's totally spoiling Ouran for me, and if my Japanese were a bit better, I'd write in to Hatori-sensei and lament about her ship of choice. =P I really hope she surprises us by totally turning it around. Haruhi falls for Tamaki, they go out for awhile, and realize things are going all wrong and she leaves him for Hikaru, YEAH. ^.^

I just love the changes and sacrifices the twins have to go through over Haruhi, and it's a much more interesting relationship dynamic than TamaHaru. There's just no edge to TamaHaru (and frankly, I find the parent-daughter thing disturbing >.<).